Carers' Assessment blues

 I had a social worker visit for my carers' assessment recently but it really didn't go well.

The assessment got hijacked by my other half so the only support offered was for someone to come in and help with the housework, which wouldn't help me at all.

Basically, my other half doesn't like me doing a lot of housework as I am also disabled, only, my view is that achieving the housework, helps me with my physical and mental fitness.

My home is the place where we have a private space where we can be ourselves and just be daft if we want to, chat and joke, sing along to the TV and swear at it if we feel like it.

I don't want strangers invading my personal space and neither my other half nor the social worker got this.